How We Told People

Because we had been trying for so long, we had thought of many ways to tell people we were pregnant.

We know it was super early, but we were super excited. And we were only letting

certain people know.

My parents, the wifes dad, my brother, the wifes brother and sister in law, the wifes sister, and also one of my cousins who I'm close with and 2 of my aunts and uncles. So you know, just a little circle.

Bar my aunts, uncles and Cousin, everyone else got cards and baby grows announcing we were pregnant.

For my cousin and her husband, they had covid at the time so we offered to take them round some Costa coffees.

The first heartbreaking issue we encounter was when we gave my aunts scratch cards - they know we're generally jokers so they didn't trust us. But they scratched them off anyway, they're those scratch cards you get off amazon that basically say we're pregnant once all scratched off. So yeah, they were both shocked and excited. The one person in the whole world who I thought would be happy for us, turned around and said 'who's the father?' like excuse you. I am the other parent. No need for this. The wife on the other hand was not as quiet as me. Stating 'thats irrelevant' because let's face it. It is. I am the other parent. Just because we aren't your traditional mother and father doesn't mean this child is going to be loved any less. You don't go around asking ladies who have had one night stands and fall pregnant who the father is do you!? no.

This is just the beginning of possibly many things to come.

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